If you are a plus size or fat person, you know how difficult it is to date.Tinder is notorious for its users fat shaming, and this video shows how people react to their real-life dates being bigger than what they expected. It was that video that inspired Woo Plus, an app exclusively for the plus size dating community.

Through all of the trials and tribulations, and in circumnavigating my identity, there are five primary questions I consider before committing to a potential partner.

It gives me a sense of relief and safety because it can be assumed that I’m not a fat girl experiment for you.

In high school, I dated a guy who only asked me out to humiliate me in front of his friends.

Street harassment is supposed to be seen as a compliment. "Someone's paying attention to you, shouldn't you be happy?

You're supposed to be happy if someone leans creepily over you in a bar and tries to chat you up, and if that attention is unwanted, you're looked upon as strange or ungrateful. "Conversely, you're expected to grin and bear it when prettier friends grab the attention of someone you're interested in.